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Who nearly made an honest woman of Nicole Kidman after her mission: impossible with Tom Cruise ended and her romance with Keith Urban began? That's the big question now that the Aussie actress has revealed in a Vanity Fair sitdown that she was engaged to an unidentified man in between her two marriages, "[But] I wasn't ready," she says. "We weren't ready." (Kidman's dalliances during the time in question, Us notes, were Lenny Kravitz and Steven Bing.)

Kidman also confirms in the interview that she and Cruise "lost a baby early on" in their marriage, "so that was really very traumatic. That's when it came that we would adopt Bella," who is now age 15.