may be many things — a big ol' diva, for instance — but she's not
a two-timer. J.Lo insists that even though she met fiancé Ben Affleck
in late 2001 on the set of Gigli
, she did not sleep with him until after she separated from her then dancer-husband Cris Judd
. "I'm a very faithful person," the actress-singer told Reader's Digest
. "If somebody had told me, 'Ben's attracted to you,' I would have said, 'No, I wasn't raised that way.'"