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Question: In your Jan. 9 posting, Christine asked why roughly five million people who watch Desperate Housewives do not watch Grey's Anatomy. You presented one logical explanation, that some people do not watch past 10 pm/ET due to work the next day. Then you seem perplexed by the rest of us who like to stay with Housewives but not with Grey's Anatomy. To start out with, I would consider myself a connoisseur of television. I say this so that you won't consider me a simple dolt who just watches action and procedural shows. I love good writing, chemistry between the actors, intelligent interactions, interesting background. But to me, it's simple. I do not like shows with a straight-out "soap opera" formula (their main focus is how many people they can get their characters involved with in varying situations) like ER, Grey's Anatomy, Beverly Hills, 90210 and Gilmore Girls, etc. I admit that I watched the first few shows of Anatomy, ER and L.A. Law but soon grew bored by the soap-opera story lines. I sometimes even revisit soap-type shows because I want to see if the writing and character chemistry have sustained. But it is just not my cup of tea. I am a male who watches Desperate Housewives because of the attractive women and the crazy story lines. I consider Housewives a fun satire of the soap-opera model. I perceive (perhaps wrongly) that people involved in Grey's Anatomy, etc., take themselves too seriously. There are many males whom I know do not admit to watching Housewives but watch it because of Eva, Nicollette, Teri, Marcia and Felicity. I bet about at least half of the drop is due to people like me who are still awake and watch their recordings of missed shows like Veronica Mars, Numbers, Medium, CSI, Arrested Development, Smallville or Everybody Hates Chris.
Answer: What a fruitful topic this turned out to be. There seem to be as many explanations for Housewives-to-Grey's tune-out as there are people. Everything from the late time period, to having fallen behind and not wanting to join the show midstream, to not liking medical shows, to using the time period to catch up on other shows, to instances (like the above) of simple viewer preference. This letter no doubt ruffled a ton of feathers with its generalized disdain for what is termed "soap opera," so let me point out that within any genre, there is room for good and bad, formula hackwork and great innovation. Happens in procedural crime dramas, happens in soaps, too. While I agree that Housewives works best as a parody of the genre, I would strongly disagree that Grey's Anatomy takes itself more seriously, although there are many serious moments. When both shows are on their game, both are delightful. Of course that also applies to a show like Gilmore Girls, which defies any pigeonholing: comedy, drama, soap. It's all of those and none of those. Just because a show has continuing story lines involving romantic entanglements is no reason to shun it. Unless, of course, that's your choice.
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