Brace yourselves: Ben and J.Lo have called off their lavish weekend wedding. But don't go collecting on that office pool just yet; Hollywood's "It" couple haven't split. According to Extra, Bennifer decided to postpone their big day because the media frenzy surrounding the nuptials was getting out of control. (Really? Hadn't noticed.) Apparently, they'd prefer to sneak off at a later date with only their immediate family present.