On The Oprah Winfrey Show yesterday, ill-fated Ronald Goldman's father and sister told the talk-show queen that by taking O.J. Simpson's book, If I Did It, from him and releasing it themselves, they hoped to hurt the accused double murderer. They also aimed to collect on their $38 million wrongful-death judgment against the former football star and prove once and for all that living well really is the best revenge. For her part, O says she will neither buy nor read the howdunit.