Kelly McGillis

Tom Cruise's Top Gun girlfriend Kelly McGillis is on the market — and this time she's looking for a lady.

The 51-year-old was asked on the SheWired.com internet show Girl Rock! what kind of partner she's looking for.

"Definitely a woman," McGillis said. "I'm done with the man thing. You need to move on in life.

McGillis, who has been married and divorced twice, has two daughters with second husband Fred Tillman. She described coming out as an "ongoing process from the time I was probably 12," and even felt that her rape in 1982 was God punishing her for being gay.

Now, she's ready to move one. "It's a part of being true to yourself," she said. That's been a challenge for me."