Jillian Harris

In a word, The Bachelorette's Jillian Harris says that having a bevy of would-be beaus vie for her affections — versus when she competed with a gaggle of gals over Bachelor Jason Mesnick — has been "great."

"It's definitely been a roller coaster," she says in Part 2 of her TVGuide.com video Q&A. "It's way harder being the one calling the shots."

In the clip below, Jillian also opens up about the big question mark that is country crooner Wes, and how she went into this show with a kissing "quota" that has since gone kablooey.

"It's so abnormal to be kissing more than one guy in one night," she says. Yet she ultimately decided that in the name of finding The One, "I'm not going to worry about my reputation. I'm just going to go with it."

Lastly, we asked Jillian: If Jason Mesnick had rang her up before The Bachelorette and asked for another chance, would she have taken him back? Get her illuminating answer to that question at the 1:45 mark.